Then I clicked the "Post" button on a thread I created. I don't know. I mean, the post was an attempt to understand more about the people that I've been interacting with for the past year and a half. The thing is, we talk, we game, but I don't know if we really understand one another.
And the thing also is...
They aren't actually interested in the kind of things I think about!!! Ok lah, not really... Depends on the subject. It's just that...self disclosure is something that, coincidentally, they are ALL uncomfortable with.
I was very disinclined to post because to be honest, as much as I want to understand their personalities more (and *cough* see if my understanding of MBTI functions has improved), I don't know if I'm intruding their personal space. Yeah, considering what I'm guessing their types to be, I can imagine and respect the space they want to be given. Don't really wanna make it awkward.
But heck. Hell. If I don't ask, I probably won't ever know.
Ever since I found out how my lack of understanding towards INFPs wrecked two of my friendships, and how we live in a world without certainty...I don't know, man, I don't know...
OMG!
14 years ago
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