What is it with impressions

Are my words very coded or something?

I don't appreciate overly complicated interpretations of my questions. If I ask you, "Are you busy?" it doesn't mean I'm trying to get you to do stuff if you say you aren't. It's just as direct as that--are you busy? I might just be bored looking for someone to talk to. I'm just saying this as an example...

I frequently get very indirect answers even though my question is rather direct. I'm not sure how I conduct myself most of the time for people to think second guess what I want and then end up with answers irrelevant to what I'm asking. I get vague answers, etc, information that prevent me from understanding anything at all. It's, like this wall, that's there to prevent me from trying to understand, and probing doesn't help either, because I probably have a motive for asking or something along that line...

Sadly, I almost never have motives for asking. I don't ask trick questions for fun.

I don't know. I've no idea... I do have a lot of thoughts, but when I ask questions, I just want a direct answer. Additional information would be nice. But I don't need you to guess my intentions.

Rest assured, I respect anyone's private space as much as I want others to respect mine.

I feel like it's getting harder and harder to hold a meaningful, or even normal, conversation....

I don't know. I don't understand why people tell me that articles I write or whatsoever are interesting but when I try to hold a conversation, it's full of miscommunication.

Is it me?